This sucks really really really bad. advice?

so i met this guy one time a long time ago.. we became friends on facebook. got eachothers numbers. started texting and decided to hang out last night. i was expecting a fun night with just me and him. that isn't what happened at all. it was me and him, his friend his sister his brother and 3 of his sisters friends. i didn't know any of them. and im crazy when im with people i know but when i don't know anyone its like i don't say anything. so me him and his friend(sammy) walked outside and were talking about what we wanted to do. none of us cared so we went back inside to watch the movie strangers. so he told me to sit next to him on the couch. so i did. i was expecting something anything. but nothing happened. he sat there holding a pillow the entire time. and a few nights ago i said what is there to do and he said cuddle on the couch. i didn't realize he ment with a pillow. so anyways it was me him sammy his sister and her friend and his brother all watching a movie. after the movie was over.. we sat there for a little bit and then started playing rockband and he moved over to the other couch and sat with his sisters friend and i sat with sammy. it was kind of weird then when it was time for me to go it was just me him and sammy. and i got up and walked outside cuz i was meeting my ride by the road. i said thank you for having me and he said thank you for coming. and he went inside and i stood by the road by myself waiting. and i haven't talked to him since then...... should i give up? cuz i kind of liked him. but last night made me feel like it was his way of saying no chance....This sucks really really really bad. advice?
Ok the inner workings of a guy's mind is very complex. Most of us will not act on a hunch unlike women. Guys believe it or not are actually very shy when it comes to dating or intimate contact. i mean you have to see it from his perspective what is he made a move and you didn't have feeling for him? that would be very awkward and would most likely severely harm your friendship. If you want him to make the move you need to prepare before not just expect him to sweep you off your feet. Try to get into an intimate conversation with him that will hint to him that you have feeling for him. I would keep trying, try flirting and talking to him more often and for longer. Don't make your self look easy, desperate or slutty but, try to give him more confidence that you like him.This sucks really really really bad. advice?
maybe you are some kind of bunny boiler and he only got you there to keep you quiet. As we only have your side of the story. It looks like he is not interested though
he could be interested but was shy because of his sister and her friends being there... you just never know. maybe just try to go out just the 2 of you though :) that might help





-good luck
go for wut ur heart desires maybe he felt akwrd to call ask him to go to a movie or something
he doesn't sound interested.
Okie dokie.. I know how you feel girl! Exactly! I can be more quiter around people i dont know.. But im getting better at it :) So i do understand how you feel! :) :) :) :) Umm well if i were you i would text him and say something like.. Last night i didnt feel like myself.. i would say something like that if i felt awkward for not really saying much. Umm but then again.. maybe you should wait and see what happens. you dont want to come off as obbsessive. But i think i would text him and be like last night felt kinda awkward.. Or just be yourself %26amp; tell him how you felt and everything.
well you could always just tell him you were feeling funny or it was really akward... there is no real way to ';fix'; what happened... although if you do hangout again, make sure you have plans to DO SOMETHING, not sit around and watch a movie... movies are a good third or fourth date the first one should be something where you have to interact with eachother. I would wait till either your parents or his are gone, and the hangout one on one play some board games or video games, also social lubrication is probably a good idea (alcohol) people have been using it for hundreds of years to make talking and being around people easier... good luck