Friday, November 25, 2011

Just met the boyfriends family.. went bad :(.. advice..?

My boyfriend had a long term girlfriend before me.. they were together for years.. obviously she got close to his family. Well, weve been together 9 months now.. hes a great boyfriend.. never given me a reason not to trust him... and were really happy...





As his family is from another state, i didnt met any of them until tonight. Well, i get there.. first thing his aunt (not even his mom- his extended family!!) started talking to him about right in front of me was his ex girlfriend and how they still talk to each other!!!





I couldnt help but get upset when we left. My boyfriend said he cant believe they would bring her up in front of me but yes his mom and aunt still talk to her and he says they are like that with all his brothers exes.





Was i right to be upset? is that weird to anyone? Any girls been in this situation?! I cant help but feel i wont live up to her and that they are disapointed that they are over!Just met the boyfriends family.. went bad :(.. advice..?
his family needs 2 realise that he is with u %26amp; should respect the fact that his ex is out of the picture with him %26amp; not bring her up . its 1 thing if they r friends with her but they need 2 learn that he has moved on %26amp; is with u %26amp; that bring her up is inapropiate %26amp; is disrespectful 2 uJust met the boyfriends family.. went bad :(.. advice..?
You could be upset but not at your boyfriend, you could be upset at his mother and aunt. but their is nothing you can do to change that beside make them like you then make them love you by being nice and sweet with having manners. Try to talk to them, go out to lunch and visit them. first you can call them to get comfortable around them .
Tell his mama to quit hatin...I'm just playing lol

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