Being good ruined my life! being bad advice needed?

I was such a good boy, did all my folks told me,held my hurt back when it needed so. now I don't know what I did it for. I'm always leftout of stuff, my parents don't ever take me anyway, I feel like an outcast.





I'm 18 and I know my life can't be over yet, but I have no resources and only a handfull of friends, please tell me how can I reverse my boring.


life. I feel Isolated and alone. I just want to do fun thingsBeing good ruined my life! being bad advice needed?
Why not try a youth group in a church.Being good ruined my life! being bad advice needed?
Everyone has felt that way. You need to overcome these feelings. Get into sports or exercise , drink more water. Your handful of friends, tells me that you are not isolated nor alone. Relieve your boredom with a healthy diet, increase exercise , improve your grades, study, visit the Library and read.Clean and redecorate your Room you will not have time to be bored. What is it that your friends are into ? The girls can wait until you have improved your self image, and outlook on life. Wow you have enough ideas from these answers to last you a lifetime, do choose the ones you will try.The Youth group at Church sounds like the most fun
For all you know, being good probably saved your life.. You don't know what being bad is like.. If you don't want your life to be boring, just hang out with your friends at bowling alley and bowl some balls.. If you don't have any friends, go make some friends at summer camps or at churches.. being good can be fun.. It's not the goodness fault that you are boring.. It's your fault.. I am not trying to talk down to you, I just don't want you to throw away your life and end up so badly with people with drugs, shoplifting and end up in jail.. It's not worth it.. because jail is boring, and even worse than your life right now..


joining youth club at church is a great way to have fun, trust me.. they are teens your age, 18, 19, etc.. and they do a lot of tons of fun.. It's amazing, they turn your life around, and you won't end up in jail.. and another great thing about it is that you can meet girl who has same values like you..
I don't really understand how being good ruined your life... and you don't have to be ';bad'; to have fun. If anything, being bad might actually get you in trouble.





Go out with your friends to different places... try going to concerts or any sporting event... you can meet a lot of new people there.





Another way to meet people and possibly gain more friends is by joining clubs or sports... that is, if you're still in high school or just starting college.





There are so many things you can do and have fun doing it without trying to be ';bad.';





Good luck.
tell yor parents that u are bored wit yor life and u shud start saving up for a trip somware and lieto yor parents about stuff to get money from them...also if u want to be bad...be loud and curse non-important people out...if some1 is getting on yor nerves be loud with watever u want to say and try to make every1 look....but try not top hthink about the fact that every1 is lukin think about how embarresed the person must be and then walk away....but if uve been gud all yor life then i wudnt advise this cause u probly dont have the rite voice,attitude,or swagg...u dont really nmeed a swagg but u rnt a pro so u shud try to find 1
well look at positive side, u do have a bunch of friends,,, go with them,,, dnt say no and stay alone ,,,,otherwise u will always be isolated,,,,





look jon some cricket,football coaching sessions or any art classes, or dancing,, or swimming,, join a gym a simplest thing u can do.





there u will make friends and keep in touch with those u have ,also u can make friends with friends of ur friends ,, expand ur social circle...





and u r bored,, basically with ur lifestyle... so do wat u always wanted to do but never did in life ,,start approaching life differently than before.....





like od anything ,,,, if u wished to wera fashionable clothes but tht abt looks ,try them and get a new hairstyle ,,or read books,,,go for morning walks in places where many people dothis,, there when u go for few days i am sure u will see few people reuularly ,,u will make atleast 1 or 2 friends more ,,,or even a group, well take ur friends too..
Change yourself. There is no magic formula for it. People perceive you the way you act.





Walk into a new environment and portray an air of confidence about you and that's what those people will see. You make your own life, find a social hotspot, or a bar and just start talking. Drunks are almost always friendly.
That's my problem too.It seems the only way to get out of this is to be yourself and to do a sport or something you like in the spare time.This way you will make more friends and learn new things.And also be a bad boy when is needed and raise your confidence.
Well You Dont Have To Be Bad To Have Fun :)


Just Let Lose And Take A Break From Being So Good But Dont Turn Into A Lil Devil Lol.


Have You Tried Drinking With Friends?


Trying To Meet A Girl?


Go To A Club?


18 Is A Good Age And Life Isnt Over Still Plenny Of Fun To Have Just Go Out With These Handful Of Friends And See What They Get Up To





Good Luck


Hope Some Fun Comes Your Way





x





:)
go to a dance club see if yup can sneak in and what you can get away with its exilirating and one hell of an adrenaline rush and also try to be more outgoing with people in general and dont be afraid to talk to anybody cuz people are people and social by nature
Join some clubs - bicycle club, toastmasters, car clubs. Or take some classes - pottery class, photography class, etc. Enroll in college. Volunteer at church, food bank, etc.





You are young - you can make your life into anything you want.
Learn an insturment, join a Jazz band, Move to New York, Chicago, LA and gig around. You'll meet so many people that you'll forget about your boring hometown and move toward a higher plane of reality.
You have to define ';fun things'; and ';good boy'; what are your parents expecting of you in order to be good? Is it too much? Are they allowing you to do anything fun? You have to make sure you draw a distinct line between fun and stupid.
Your 18...if your finished school, get a job and move out on your own..Most 18 yr olds don't want to hang out with their parents so go live your life and hang out with your friends... and keep on being good because bad doesn't pay off and you could end up in jail
It is possible to have the best of both worlds. And people will love you for it. You just have to be looking at the problem in the right way.
It may be there way of making you independent and not dependent on them. Perhaps you need to talk to your parents. There could easily be an answer to their abaondonment.
your 18, your parents probably think that you can do things for yourself now.
Look at women and women will look at you, think about shagging a horny wench and you never know it might come true.
military.. marine corps.. u will have a blast their.. always doing something.. and your alwasy going to have a adrenaline rush...
explore your body, explore your taint
You sound like your having a horny moment. Calm down and dont do anything stupid -_- be a good boy :]
I seem to be similar to you. Join clubs, its always good. I'm not your average kid either, you go to a martial arts club most of the adults there are good people. You'll find some crap where ever you go :( shame I know. you can have an in depth conversation with them. Or something else..maybe guitar or another hobby.





When people say ';get out there'; what they really mean is just go and do it....


I'm just giving examples of what you should do, I hope, just forget what people will think and say hi to someone you've never spoken to - not a random stranger you'll never see again but someone in a college class or university you see around. If you come over relaxed and at ease and just start talking something like ';hi I'm XXXXX...what classes do you take'; if they tell you to get lost, nothing lost - unless they stalk you -%26gt; pick them wisely. if they respond be agreeable at first. say they reply with ';yeah I do physics, biology and geology'; even if you're rubbish at them (this goes for anything you ask about) establish a connection ( you may want to reword) ';ah, thats pretty cool man, I don't find those so easy, numbers and such escape me like anything. but thats pretty neat.'; If you want to make friends, keep talking on that line. Don't ask things that will put them on the spot like ';do you work?'; ';yes'; ';I do too..how much do you earn? I earn 拢/$/70 a week'; that'll make one of you feel inferior and less likely to talk again. once you've established common ground invite them some where. comedy, music, skate park, yours to play some amazing game...that usually works.





thats also great for pulling ;)