Friday, July 30, 2010

I know it sounds bad, but I need some advice on how to steal my friends girlfriend..any help?

I really like her...alot, andthe thing is, he doesn't deserve her, he completely ignores her, but she is totally blind to it, her and I are already pretty close as friendsI know it sounds bad, but I need some advice on how to steal my friends girlfriend..any help?
well i guess . you should let her see . the good things that you will provide her and compare her boyfriend to you and what a better guy you are then him .I know it sounds bad, but I need some advice on how to steal my friends girlfriend..any help?
Let her come to the conclusion first that he doesn't deserve her. Just be there for her, and show her how much you care for her. Just because she might come to the conclusion that he is a jerk doesn't mean that she will fall for you. So, don't mess up your friendship, and possibly their relationship on a wim, because you don't really know their relationship through and through. All you can do is show her that you are a good guy, and you care for her. The rest is up to her.
I have some advice for you, yes. You can not ';steal'; someone away. If she is interested in you, she will break up with her boyfriend and let you know. It's very sweet that you recognize that she is being treated badly, and think she deserves better. However, if she's happy, she's happy. Furthermore, as unfair as it is, if she starts dating you, she will likely be thought of in even a worse light than you will be. If she decides to break up with him in the future, and later on becomes interested in you, great. In the meantime, you may want to think about gently encouraging your ';friend'; to be a bit nicer to her.





Good luck.
Then let her see it on her own, and then after they break up make your move. If you guys are close as you say you are, then just listen to her and give her advice but don't try to butt in too much into their relationship. If you try to get involved she might not like it and end up hating you. If you really like her be patient, and if her relantionship is as bad then they wont last.
ok first off you should find out if she really cares for him cuz if you manage to break her and your friend up but she still has feelings for him it could be a mess and you could end up getting dumped, but if he really treats her bad then talk to her and just tell her that even though you care about your friend he's not treating her the way he should then after you get her to realize that just be there for her you'll be surprised at how fast she realizes your the one she wants
Dude, it's happend to me too.


a couple options.


1. tell him straight out you've got a crush on her, but make sure you include that you will back off until he is through, no matter how he treats her, he's you friend and deserves respect if he is.


2. tell her first. not the best choice but if you can trust her let her know.


3. best one, just flirt with her alot but don't say anything, because their going to break up sooner or later if that's how he treats her, and when they do, then she's pretty much deffinetly going to like you if you've been good to her.





hope it helps.



Not only does it sound bad, it IS bad... I can sympathize with you, but this is the hand you've been dealt, and you have to play - can't GO FISH, and pluck a card from someone else's hand without cheating. You need to wait till they've broken up to make a move, and, if he treats her that poorly, it shouldn't take long. And, if she DOESN'T, THAT'S a sign to you, in itself - DO NOT ENTER.



You called yourself a friend, yet you wish to steal his girl? You will never know what it means to have a friend until you learn to be one. Ever heard of ';bros not hoes';? If she left him for his friend what kind of girl is she anyway? There are lots of people in this world. Find someone who is not already taken and you won't have to steal from your friends.
I am a girl so i can take this personally. She is caught in the middle. If she loves him then just wait. You have to think of her feelings too. If they brake then talk to him first because he might actually fell like he claims her for a while, its jealousy. its bad to steal her from him. there are so many people out there.
be cautious about what you do


if you come on too strong..esp being his friend..shell think your a total dick even if you are close


sart spending more time with her..gradually..but as much as you can and cautiously flirt


dont talk..it will get back to her and to him..dont try to break them up..if he really is that bad they will break up soon...then you can steal her


be patient
do you really want to give up your best friend for a girl?! if you do wana risk all that dont do anything to break them up just wait and see if they break up or something and tell her hoe you feel dont try to break them up bc ull probably lose ur best friend and the girl i repeat DONT TRY TO BREAK THEM UP!!!!!!!!!!!!
hmmm...


well it happened to me too...


i like my guy friend...


but he likes another girl...


but i chose to ignore my feelings because i dont want to ruin our friendship...okay...not helping...sorry bout that... =)


i think you should tell her how you really feel about her...


and make her realize that the guy she likes isn't worth it...


you won't know what'll happen unless you try...
well for 1 you should confront you friend about it.


or just show her that your worth taking the time for.


be her SECRET admirer. send her roses once and awhile get her email or msn and tell her its you who is sending all this





i dunno. there's just some thoughts





hope it helps





. emmalouise
well, sorry bro. but it's too late.


u can't steal her cause then u won't be friends with the guy anymore, and then she won't talk to you cause she'll find out that u backstabbed ur friend.


so u should have done it before they dated.


there's other fish in the sea.
Let him screw things up and then ask if he'd be okay with you dating her before you charge in and try to break them up unless your willing to lose this friend for one shot at a girl which in all likelihood won't be the girl you'll marry.
You need to be a true friend and forget about the whole thing. That is one of the worst things anyone could do. I hope that if you do and try to take her away that you end up with neither of them.
talk to her about it. how serious is she about your friend. how good is your friendhip with you guy pal? be prepaired to lose the guy if you takr the girl.
Bad Idea.Why would you want something/someone that doesn't belong to you? Trust me,you might feel good for a month or two after you get her...but things like this backfire.
wow ur a nice friend..geez but i guess just tell er how u think she could b treated and tell her how u feel..haha it actually worked for me no joke...but is it worth losing ur friend over a girl? yea he will b pisssed
Why would you want to date a girl who would leave he boyfriend as soon as some sweet-talker came along? If she's that kind of girl, your relationship isn't going to last long anyway.
Tell her that he's a douche and that she deserves better. She will see how much you care about her and might possibly give you a chance
Tell her you love and wana marry her... You wana see her raising your kids!





hopefully this will scare her off and open up your friends eyes to u, u ******* dick.
well if you want to STEAL your FRIEND'S girlfriend, then you are NOT HIS friend by any means.
show her how much of a prick he is and show her how kind u are and give her a shoulder to cry on and make ur happy and feel safe and ur good good luck bro save her from the dumb A@@
Hes going to find out then beat the living **** out of you. I would rather look for another girl...
Let her realize this herself lest she do the same to you.
you just wait and keep implyin that ur friend is an asshole. eventually she will realize you are a better person.





flirt with her. once they break up make a move
flirt with her and ask her on a date. your friend is a stupid idiot

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